On Being Too Nice and Giving Too Much

On being too nice….

I was inspired to write this poem after reading Doreen Virtues book ‘Assertiveness for Earth Angels’.

This poem is dedicated to those women out there who give, give and give. For those who put themselves last. For those who depend upon another person’s happiness for their own happiness. For those who are learning to put themselves first, to do things that make them happy and those learning to be open to receive.

I send my love to you..

rising to the challenge



The Rag Doll by Karen Kubicko

“The rag doll has a permanent smile sewn on her face
Always appearing happy
She lets you touch her, squeeze her and hold her without complaint
Inside, her stuffing is turning moldy and grey
Yet her smile continues
She listens intently to all you say
Hears all the harsh words that you pour out
Keeping her lips sealed
Unable to open her tightly stitched smile
Day after day passes
She is easily forgotten
Pushed outside in the cold, bitter rain
Her little piece of love
Her heart-shaped piece of material
Long ago placed inside
Begins to be crumpled
Emotionally thrown about
Torn and tattered
Finally, it becomes guarded
She becomes stronger
Tired of the loneliness
She musters up all her courage
Takes a deep breath
Rises to the challenge of knowing ones true self
The rag doll limps outside
Knowing that there is more
There is unconditional love
Out there”


8 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. kaluise
    Mar 08, 2014 @ 15:29:20

    So happy you posted this. It is a really heart felt poem.


  2. The Other Side of Ugly - Letters to Humanity
    Mar 08, 2014 @ 16:23:58

    It’s beautiful…


  3. lyndeelou
    Mar 08, 2014 @ 16:45:09

    This poem is exactly were i am at in my life. It is so true. Thanks


  4. Words From the Moon
    Mar 08, 2014 @ 18:56:35

    What a great poem – how did you know my story so well? I used to be the Rag Doll, but no more. Thanks for sharing such an insightful and hopeful poem.


  5. Cynthia & Bob
    Mar 10, 2014 @ 00:22:15

    It’s always nice to be reminded that unconditional love is available if we’re willing to allow it in. -Bob


  6. bluebutterfliesandme
    Mar 10, 2014 @ 21:59:24

    Thanks for sharing Karen~


  7. kelihasablog
    Mar 11, 2014 @ 17:42:44

    Good topi to post about! ❤


  8. Byron
    May 26, 2014 @ 09:34:13

    WOW I truly understand. This strikes me in so many ways. Wonderful poem about a sad past. Thank you for sharing. I understand now.


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